Before Crossing Over


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Before Crossing Over (BCO) focuses on two acronyms representing two general, but opposite, types of individuals. The first is a NUMAWIT (an acronym)—adorably, and less formally, called a nummie. The second is a HAVEIT (an acronym)—admirably, and less ceremoniously, known as a havvie. Nummies represent those who possess a majority of unfavorable character traits, while havvies are persons whose personalities encompass a preponderance of admirable characteristics. Within each of these two groups are more specialized categories of individuals, also represented with acronyms. The first of these are called DARKAWITs (an acronym)—and they reside at the bottom of the NUMAWIT alliance. Those within the second unique group are called WITHITs (an acronym)—and they represent the exclusive, top genre at the pinnacle of the havvie group. Detailed definitions of all four acronyms are found in Chapters 2 and 3.

In BCO you will learn that nummies are literally everywhere! So who are they? Is your neighbor next door a nummie? How about your doctor? Is your psychologist one? It’s possible they all might be! Layman or professional, no one is immune to the dreaded nummie syndrome. Is your spouse, your girlfriend or your boyfriend a nummie? Perhaps… and you must also consider yourself! Discover how to identify havvies and nummies in the upcoming Chapters 2 through 11. Details within these chapters will also teach you how to identify which of the above two groups you belong. Regardless of which group you identify with, you can also learn how to make positive changes within yourself. Besides, it’s best you make those changes now, before you meet the Depurator (also see the dictionary)!
Hence, readers are hereby put on notice that everyone on the planet of Stratajem will eventually meet up with the Depurator or one of his team members. Be forewarned that these people have the ability to purify the human mind—including yours!

Havvies who cooperate with the Depurator will be affected only an infinitesimal amount when going through the purification process—which occurs immediately upon passing through the Pearly Gate. Nummies, who do not cooperate, will suffer at that time—how much they know not!

Nummies constitute the majority of our population—hence, they truly are EVERYWHERE! This personality pattern is actually disease-like and very contagious. Because of the ease and speed with which it spreads, we have nicknamed it The NUMAWIT Plague! Technically, it is not directly physically threatening. Even so, this plague is very infectious. It’s truly a temptatious, communicative hors d’oeuvre intertwined with peer pressure and one’s societal existence. As will be discovered, this plague can be mentally addictive. HOWEVER, keep in mind that nummies do and can change. It’s a difficult process that takes a lot of dedication and energy but, with work, any nummie can metamorphosize into a havvie.

Planetary history assures us that the “NUMAWIT plague” has existed from the beginning of time. In the biblical book of Genesis recorded approximately 5950 years ago on the planet Earth, we find that “Cain rose up against Able his brother, and slew him.” Such a characterization of Cain places him in the specialized nummies group specifically known as the DARKAWIT faction—a minority group at that time. DARKAWITs, discovered in the days of Cain and Abel, did not last long, for they were quickly given a just penalty.
Because of the “survival of the fittest” philosophy, and with the exception of a few minor societal road bumps, numawism only involved a minority of the populous until the 1960s, planet Earth time. Then, due to the “artificial” lifestyle made available through modern-day living, the NUMAWIT plague infected the majority of the population. Since then, it has been snowballing on an ever-increasing, parabolic curve. What can be done? First, it must be identified!

In BCO you will ascertain how to ID the nummie syndrome in yourself and others. Further, you will be taught how to conquer it within, as well as help your friends and others overcome this disease. Incidentally, it was the uncovering of the “nummie” personality that led to the discovery of the havvie, which is presently a minority group in society. Havvies are composed of individuals who are the very antithesis of nummies. Havvies, as they are admirably called, are stable individuals who ARE capable of developing pleasant relationships. They are “the glue” that holds any society together in a mentally healthy, composed and organized manner.

Reflections, mental or physical,
help us “perceive reality.”